Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:49 pm Post subject: family
i dont sleep very well and sometimes not at all.....one night i dreamt that my mum was looking at me from the upstairs bedroom and waving and talking to me but i couldnt hear her......i woke up in tears.....i am also estranged from my daughter due to problems with her, she is 31 now.....we have been estranged for 6yrs......i have dreamt about her, she looks well, her hair is a bit shorter and she is dressed in a suit.....i spoke to her asking how she was and she seemed to answer me so grown up....the funny thing was i didnt have any feelings towards her......when i did waken up i felt sad because of the way i felt in the dream......
i dont know if this makes any sense to you, i feel as if i am rambling on a bit so i will stop for now _________________ linda wallace
No don't be silly, talk all you want. That's what this forum is all about.
I remember having a dream about my nephew one time and he was a baby and mt dad was with me and we were near a river. My dad told me to throw him in because he figured he was a burden or something so I thought nothing of it and threw my nephew in the river. Well, a few moments later I suddenly realized what I had done and started feeling really bad thinking *The poor little guy didn't even have a chance* and I (in my dream still) started thinking that it was cruel and the water was so cold and he drowned and it was all my fault for listening to my dad and I woke up very disturbed.
To this day just thinking about it is unsettling and I had the dream about a year and a half ago, but I realize it was just an odd dream and know I would never hurt my nephew, but these dreams happen sometimes as though our minds are trying to test our mental or emotional fortitude. Needless to say my Nephew isn't even a baby and he's all grown up and doing well. hehe I never told him about the dream though.
You having this dream that you didn't feel anything towards your daughter is not unusual I don't think since you are estranged. Probably just your emotional defenses or barrier in your dream reminding you that you and her haven't resolved this yet so it's business as usual and the distance is still there. Whether or not you ever repair your issue with her is up to you two of course, but blood is thick and I'm sure someday you can sort things out even if it means swallowing the blame if only for the sake of the relationship no matter who's at fault. _________________ Visions of the Night Website-Uncover your dreams!
unfortunatly my daughter was abusing drugs and i couldnt take it anymore so had to get her to get a place of her own......i would love to meet up with her some day but it frightens me because unfortunatly she knows the buttons to push and she could have me over the edge easily......
i have a website in memory of my dad and it was funny....the nights i did get sleeping i dreamt of her in the way i mentioned and low and hehold my sister emailed me to ask if i had a look at my dad's website...when i went into it, there was a 2 messages from my daughter on it for my mum and dad and a little bit for me, it was nice but a bit sad....
oh well that is my tale of woe _________________ linda wallace
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